We are life builders, shaping our world by what we seek, say, and do. Setting our desires to seek God’s kingdom first builds something in us—and in others—that nothing else can. When we choose to meditate on God’s Word instead of nursing anger, offense, and grudges, we rebuild what sin and hurt have torn down. Bishop D. G. Hargrove calls us to let Scripture, not our emotions, have the final word as we build lives that will stand.
Life is being built every day.
Every decision, every word, every relationship, every act of obedience, and every moment of surrender is shaping who we are becoming. In Life Builders, Bishop D. G. Hargrove brings a pastoral word to North Cities about building a life that honors God—and helping others do the same.
This message is not only for mothers or parents. It is for every disciple who wants to grow in faith, build strong relationships, let go of old wounds, and live with Kingdom purpose.
For families in Garland, TX, and surrounding communities like Murphy, Plano, Richardson, Rowlett, and Wylie—as well as Dallas County, Collin County, and Rockwall County—this message is a reminder that God is calling us to become people who build life, not tear it down.
Seek First the Kingdom
Jesus said in Matthew 6:33:
“Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”
Bishop Hargrove reminded us that the first step to becoming a life builder is setting our desire on God’s purpose.
Where You Look Is Where You Go
In life, direction matters.
If we only look at our own goals, our own plans, and our own comfort, we will drift toward self. But when we set our hearts on the Kingdom of God, our lives begin to move in the direction of His purpose.
God blesses His purpose. When we align our lives with what He is building, we step into blessing, clarity, and spiritual growth.
A life builder asks:
“God, what are You building, and how can I be part of it?”
Give Yourself to What God Is Building
A life builder is not simply someone who has opinions. A life builder contributes.
Bishop Hargrove challenged the church to move beyond words and into action. It is easy to give advice. It is harder to give our time, our resources, our service, our worship, and our obedience.
Kingdom People Help Build the Kingdom
If we want to see God’s work grow, we must invest in it.
That includes:
- giving faithfully
- serving consistently
- encouraging others
- supporting the mission
- helping carry the weight of ministry
A healthy church in Garland, TX is built when disciples decide, “I am not just here to watch. I am here to build.”
Meditate on God’s Word
Isaiah 55:11 teaches that God’s Word never returns void. It accomplishes what He sends it to do.
Psalm 1 describes the blessed person as someone whose delight is in the law of the Lord and who meditates on it day and night.
God’s Word Builds Strong Lives
The Word of God is not dead information. It is alive. It cuts, heals, corrects, strengthens, and forms us.
When the Word gets in us, life begins to grow in us.
Like a tree planted by rivers of water, the person who delights in God’s Word becomes stable, fruitful, and strong—even in difficult seasons.
If we want to build strong families, strong faith, and strong churches in Dallas County, Collin County, and Rockwall County, we must build on the Word of God.
Let Go of Anger and Grudges
Ephesians 4:26 says:
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”
One of the strongest moments in this message came as Bishop Hargrove spoke about letting go of anger, grudges, and old pain.
You Cannot Build Well While Carrying Old Luggage
Many people are trying to build their future while carrying wounds from the past.
But bitterness is heavy. Anger is heavy. Offense is heavy. Old pain can become luggage God never intended us to carry.
Bishop Hargrove shared from his own life and reminded us that the Holy Ghost gives us power to release what once held us captive.
Forgiveness does not mean what happened was right. It means we refuse to let what happened keep ruling our spirit.
A life builder learns to say:
“I’m letting it go in Jesus’ name.”
Build Strong Relationships
Life builders build relationships—with God, with family, with the church, and with the people around them.
Jesus taught that when we care for the hungry, the hurting, the stranger, the sick, and the imprisoned, we are ministering unto Him.
Love Must Be Put Into Action
Love is not only a feeling. Love moves.
It notices people.
It serves people.
It prays for people.
It carries burdens.
It shows up.
North Cities is called to be a church where people are not only taught truth, but also built up in love.
That is what disciples do. We build.
Becoming a Life Builder
The call of this message is simple but deeply personal:
Become a life builder.
Build your faith.
Build your family.
Build the church.
Build others.
Build with love.
Build with the Word.
Build with forgiveness.
Build with Kingdom purpose.
God is looking for people in Garland, TX and across the surrounding region who will say, “I want my life to help someone else live.”
Final Thought: Build What Matters
At the end of the day, we are all building something.
The question is: are we building what matters?
A life built on self will eventually wear down.
A life built on offense will become heavy.
A life built on God’s Word, God’s purpose, and God’s love will stand.
Life builders seek first the Kingdom.
And when they do, God builds something beautiful through them.
